Self-Love

Feeling Numb

I shared this on my Instagram last night, and the overnight response was overwhelming. It’s important to me to be transparent, but this really seemed to resonate with people, so I wanted to share it here, too. Even at my most depressed, I’ve still cared. I’ve still cared deeply, actually. Something recently happened that left […]

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Interview On Self-Love With Toni Black

I was so happy to be a part of the Living Out Loud Summit with Toni Black earlier this year! My interview with her on self-love went live on Valentine’s Day, and it was great timing! If you didn’t get a chance to check it out, it’s a great time. We both were smiling our […]

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Let’s Explore Fetishes

January 20th is Fetish Day, and I want to use this opportunity to talk about them! Uncustomary is all about loving yourself and embracing (and celebrating!) your inner weird, whatever that may be. That includes celebrating your sexuality, whatever that means for you. My entire life, I’ve always been the “Samantha” of my friend group. […]

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Why Nihilism Is Inspiring (To Me)

Nihilism isn’t always a word people know how to use. The definition can be tricky, too. Often it gets wrapped up in religion, which is fair, but it doesn’t always need to be. Basically it’s the idea that “life is meaningless” in the sense that there’s nothing beyond this earthly existence, like an afterlife. It […]

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