🎉 Reconnecting Weirdos to their Childlike Fun to Make Them Feel Less Crazy & More Confident

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You can't win the happiness game
But you can play the fuck out of it.
Your happiest life looks different than anyone else's.

I'm not going to tell you what it's supposed to look like, but I AM going to tell you that you haven't dreamt BIG ENOUGH yet.

Your happiest dreams don't even begin to reflect what you're capable of yet. Is that scary?! I'm going to squeeze every ounce of your ultimate power (JOY!) out of you.
Are you like me?

Let's flash back to me before I started my business...

I had a lot of ideas and a lot of stress. I believed I was an artist even though I wasn't making anything, and I so desperately wanted to carry out all of my creative visions, but I had a combination of blocks.

I was going to school and working full time, driving over a hundred miles every day, gaining weight from eating on the go and side effects of my medications, hated my body, had very little self-esteem, and was stressed beyond belief.

I was drinking multiple times a week with the intent to get drunk, was in a bad relationship I was scared to leave because I didn't know who I was without it, and I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. My boyfriend actually called me "boring". (It was true.) I was in a deeply horrible rut and getting disillusioned with being alive.

I also had rapidly increasing mental illness symptoms because I had no control of my life and those symptoms were my body trying to cling onto some autonomy.
If this sounds like you now...
 

🩷Disillusioned
🩷Have a lot of dreams (especially creative ones), but they aren’t translating into results
🩷Hyper independent (don’t feel you can trust others)
🩷Hypervigilant
🩷Imposter Syndrome
🩷In Pain
🩷Jaded
🩷Limiting beliefs
🩷Make excuses
🩷Miserable
🩷No confidence
🩷No money
🩷No time
🩷No time management
🩷Not taking action
🩷Scared
🩷Stressed
🩷Unexpressed
🩷Unfulfilled potential


You're in the right place!
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    that's me!
    What If You Could Be...
    Your happiest self because…
    You’re Spreading joy in the world/community through the lens of your unique passion because…
    You’re fully expressed because…
    You’re living to your fullest potential because …
    Your creative vision is fulfilled because…
    You turned your dreams into goals because …
    You took action because …
    You have good time management and know how to make plans and follow through with deadlines because…
    You’re confident because…
    You don’t have imposter syndrome which has allowed you to…
    Release control and feel more at peace which…
    To your surprise and delight has…
    Lessened the severity of your mental illness symptoms and even some physical pain which was connected to emotional trauma and tension and…

    People (including you!) are inspired by you to live their own happiest life whenever they’re around your energy!
    Did I mention you have more money, too?!
    I Know It's Possible Because I Did It!
    Today I know exactly who I am.

    I have a sense of style, taste, and confidence which is undeniable and authentically me.
    You can recognize me from down the street.

    I have been in business for myself for ten years and I will never go back to working for someone else, no matter what happens.

    I believe I'm an artist, not just because I'm naturally creative, but because I can see the results of my work that I now know how to make time for even though I technically work more hours now than I did back then because I run my own business!

    I've learned how to release control of so many expectations and things outside of myself I never thought I would be able to, including things that connect to my mental illnesses. I can't believe the progress I've made with tolerance, acceptance, and peace as it relates to my body, mind, and the outward world.

    My tics aren't even treated with medicine anymore, and I'm actually okay with them. I'm not controlled by my symptoms. They're just a part of my story, like how I wear hats now. It's so cool.

    And I get to make money at what I love. The more I love it and the more fun I have the more money I make. It's pretty beautiful and undeniable.

    That all happens when I implement the things I know to be true from my Merriment Making Method. I don't always do them, but I do always know them. And when I do them, my life expands in the best way possible. So that's what I'm here to teach you, too. (And how to do it quicker than me.)
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    The Merriment Makers is a 9 Step Method.
    It's designed for you to reclaim your connection to autopilot.

    Instead of your emotions, sensations, routines, experiences, creative passions, and relationships running on autopilot, you’ll learn how to create systems and support networks that run on autopilot so you can actually live your life.

    Let me worry about the systems.
    You just show up and apply it.
    What will you gain?
    FUN
    Discover what’s uniquely fun to you and find systems and support for how to make sure you’re having fun every day.
    PLEASURE
    Feel sensations, emotions, and pleasure back in your body in a more intense and connected way.
    CONNECTION
    Create connections with other humans, art, and nature.
    CONFIDENCE
    Become a walking example of what joy looks like for someone like you that can inspire another.
    CREATIVITY
    Find clarity about what your specific talents are to contribute to this world, and figure out how to apply them in a way that fulfills you and spreads joy to others.
    JOY

    Acquire the ability to find the good in any situation and opportunities for acting with kindness in novel ways.

    Come alive again to change the world. 

    Monthly
    $555 $88

    $44 your first month!
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    Operation Merriment ($84/Month)
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    Good News Texts ($30/Month)
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    Merriment Mail ($20/Month)
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    All resources immediately
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    Cheapest option
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    Cancel any time
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    No commitment
    Yearly
    $5,550 $880
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    Operation Merriment ($1,000/Year)
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    Good News Texts ($360/Year)
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    Merriment Mail ($240/Year)
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    All resources immediately
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    Cancel any time
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    Get two months free
    Lifetime
    $15,000 $3,000
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    Operation Merriment ($1,000/Year)
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    Good News Texts ($360/Year)
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    Merriment Mail ($240/Year)
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    Never pay again
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    Keep access to products and services as long at they are viable
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    Payment options available
    Included!
    EVERY CLASS I'VE EVER TAUGHT
    Discover what’s uniquely fun to you and find systems and support for how to make sure you’re having fun every day.
    1,000+ RESOURCES AND COUNTING
    Feel sensations, emotions, and pleasure back in your body in a more intense and connected way.
    8 NEW MODULES A YEAR
    Create connections with other humans, art, and nature.
    GROUP COACHING + Q&A
    Become a walking example of what joy looks like for someone like you that can inspire another.
    WEEKLY DROPS, DAILY TEXTS, MONTHLY MAIL
    Find clarity about what your specific talents are to contribute to this world, and figure out how to apply them in a way that fulfills you and spreads joy to others.
    VIP TREATMENT

    Acquire the ability to find the good in any situation and opportunities for acting with kindness in novel ways.

    Come alive again to change the world. 

    This is different than other subscriptions
    Did you know most memberships only give you a finite amount of resources (sometimes as few as 5!) and charge you monthly without ever adding content?!

    I don't work like that !
    I've been around the block with subscription programs. I've seen what they offer, and it's bummed me out.

    I give you 20 new resources every six weeks. Here is an example of SOME resources from ONE module.

    When you log in, you get access to 1,000 resources.

    Plus a promise of a new module every 6 weeks.

    AND ways to bring you off of the screen and into real life. With...


    • Four tangible challenges per module
    • Daily text messages
    • Daily prompts in the group chat
    • Weekly presentations on an unusual holiday
    • Weekly joyful tutorials for how to spread good news
    • Monthly mail delivered to your house
    • Community connections
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    We have to delegate certain things. The accountant does our taxes. The mechanic fixes our car. And the Merriment Maker provides you joy.

    There's nothing more important to invest in than your happiness.

    The Merriment Makers is a way to ensure you're being prompted with good news, positive perspectives, and wholesome reminders every single day to continually renew your faith in humanity and yourself. That's my job.

    Are you ready to have good news coming at you from all angles?

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    absolutely, sign me up!
    What's Included
    Texts

    5 days a week you'll get:

    📰 Good News Story, 🎨 Image, + ✨ Bonus (Fun Fact, Wholesome Meme, Positive Poem or Affirmation, Custom Designed Puns, etc.)

    $360/year yours for free
    Operation Merriment
    Every Sunday you'll get:

    Mission/Tutorial, Trivia, History, Mood Boards, Printables, & Lists + Resources of Ways to Celebrate an upcoming Unusual Holiday.
    $1,000/year yours for free
    Monthly Mail
    Every month you'll get:

    A themed, double-sided, full color newsletter in a shiny envelope to your real life mailbox. International postage included.
    $240/year  yours for free
    Group Chat + Community
    Every day you'll get:

    A daily positive message in the group chat. Plus full access to the Facebook community and the ability to interact with other members all over the world.
    1,000+ Resources
    Immediately upon joining:

    You'll get access to the existing curriculum which includes over 1,000 lessons. There are 20 pieces of content uploaded every 6 weeks!
    That's less than 9 cents per piece of content!
    Membership Card +
    Birthday Postcard
    After your trial ends, you'll be mailed a membership card with the 10 Commandments of Merriment Making, plus a postcard around your birthday. International postage included.
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    Want to see what kinds of things are inside the curriculum? Scroll through the slideshow!

    I've made sure to accommodate multiple learning styles!
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    But wait, there's more!
    You'll also receive access to my Merriment Making E-book worth $100 and my Zodiac Personal Development Workshops worth $1,222!
    Merriment Makers Manifesto
    Merriment Makers are kind to themselves and others before everything else. Merriment Makers celebrate the unusual. Merriment Makers are weirdos. Merriment Makers make gratitude lists. Merriment Makers send real mail. Merriment Makers love to laugh really loudly. Merriment Makers interact with strangers, even anonymously. Merriment Makers believe in magic. Merriment Makers encourage silly jokes and puns. Merriment Makers drive to the end of the rainbow. Merriment Makers keep their inner child alive at all costs. Merriment Makers talk to animals. Merriment Makers carry googly eyes with them at all times. Merriment Makers know ducks are hot. Merriment Makers dance in the grocery store aisle. Merriment Makers take pictures of murals. Merriment Makers feel good so they can do good.
    Meet Mary

    Hi beautiful! I'm Mary "Uncustomary" England, a published author, coach, and Merriment Maker.

    I grew up without complete access to my childhood. I developed a myriad of mental illnesses and neurodivergences (a dozen if you want to count the official list) as a way to cope and create a sense of control with the world around me.

    I've always had an underlying desire to be happy, or at least the ability to notice that when I was deeply depressed or dissociated that this was not normal (at least for me). I'm able to hold two big ideas at once, including being in so much pain I wanted to die and still believing the world is beautiful. I don't believe these are conflicting, I believe they're complicated. Like us.

    Right now I'm passionate about reminding us all to embrace our weird and slow down in a world that's pressuring us to keep hustling and not think for ourselves. And I'm doing it while dressed as a rainbow.

    Also it's worth noting I have multiple psychology degrees and have been studying positive psychology for 15 years and coaching for 10. My methods are founded in psychological research and science, not hunches and tote bag inspiration.

    I'm very excited to do what I'm here to do, which is to spread good news, inspire you, and make you feel good so that you can do what YOU'RE here to do the best way you know how (because we all do better when we feel better).

    Mary England
    Founder of Uncustomary


    5 cents of every dollar from Merriment Makers Membership subscription fees are donated to the National Alliance On Mental Illness (NAMI).
    FAQ
    Q: Is this the right membership for me?

    If your goals are to feel good and to be happy but you haven't been prioritizing happiness in your goals, then yes.

    Q: Is there a better membership than this?

    I've been around the block with membership programs. I'm consistently unsatisfied with the amount of content and services offered for the price point, and so far my membership is the best I've ever seen. Objectively. If I wasn't in my group, I would join.

    Q: Will this solve my problems?
    If your problems are related to the things I listed in the "If This Sounds Like You" section, you're doing the work, and have your basic human needs met first, then YES.

    Q: What will people think of me if I become a Merriment Maker?
    If you're new to the world of personal development, it might feel intimidating to wonder if people will think you're getting woo-woo or new age-y now that you're 'working on yourself'. It's okay for people to not get what you're doing, but don't let that stop you from trying something you want. We can talk more about how to create boundaries once you join.

    Q: Is this something I'm really going to use or enjoy?
    That's up to you, but I will tell you that people who call themselves "lurkers" say that it's worth it just to know they can contact the community and access the resources whenever they want.

    Q: Do I know enough about joy/personal development to be in this program?
    Yes. You can begin from knowing nothing and see results. Don't let your level of expertise stop you from your next level.

    Q: How do I know this isn't a scam?
    A: That's a super fair question, and I'm proud of you for asking. I used to never think like that and I'm sad we have to these days. I want to make sure you know that I'm a real person, I don't use AI to write my content, I have multiple degrees, I've been in business (as 'Uncustomary') since 2013, and there's a ton of testimonials below (keep scrolling). I've even started taking screenshots of them to provide more authenticity to them instead of just copying and pasting because I realized people will literally just write their own -- that never occurred to me. I promise I'm real and so is the content. Please e-mail me if you have any questions.

    Q: What if I'm worried or intimidated by a thousand resources?
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    No one is grading you on what you do or don't look at or do. Think about it like a library. Everything is available for your access and you get to search for what you want and leave what you don't.

    Q: What if I'm not into videos or live calls?
    A: 
    Any video call has a replay, but there are also many additional types of learning materials available. There are monthly challenges intended to get you off the computer. There are also audio lessons, workbooks, digital and printable art, and guided practices.

    Q: What if I already feel happy?
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    That’s great! This program isn’t exclusive to people who are starting from a place of overwhelm and unhappiness. You can accentuate your life and enhance your you-ness no matter where you are. If joy, fun, weirdness, creativity, celebration, and kindness are values you’re interested in, then you’ll enjoy this program.

    Q: What's the difference between The Merriment Makers and Operation Merriment?
    A: 
    Operation Merriment is a weekly masterclass and kindness mission based on an upcoming unusual holiday. The Merriment Makers is an archive of over a thousand pieces of content with new modules every month. By signing up to the Merriment Makers you also get access to Operation Merriment.

    Q: I notice there's a lot of women/femmes in your testimonials. Is this a girls-only group?
    A: 
    Nope! I do tend to attract more women/femmes (probably 80:20), but everyone is always welcome as long as you're nice!

    Q: Can I sign up at any time?
    A: Yes! The only thing that's timed is the physical mail. You have to be signed up by the 2nd of the month to receive that month's snail mail newsletter, otherwise, you'll get next month's.

    Q: What happens when I check out?
    A:
    You'll receive an email with your unique username and password, and then you can log in on the exclusive members only dashboard.

    Q: Is the price of membership the same if I live outside of the U.S.?
    A: Yes! It's the same price no matter where you live

    Q: Is there a cancelation fee?
    A: No

    Q: What if I decide I don't like it after/Are subscriptions refundable?
    A:
    That's life, babe! As this is a digital offering and you get access to a thousand resources immediately upon enrolling, per industry standard there are no refunds for membership subscriptions.

    Q: What does 'lifetime access' mean?
    A: 
    You get access for as long as the product exists and the technology we use is still viable!
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    Monthly
    $555 $88

    $44 your first month!
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    Operation Merriment ($84/Month)
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    Good News Texts ($30/Month)
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    Merriment Mail ($20/Month)
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    All resources immediately
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    Cancel any time
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    Cheapest option
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    No commitment
    Yearly
    $5,550 $880
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    Operation Merriment ($1,000/Year)
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    Good News Texts ($360/Year)
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    Merriment Mail ($240/Year)
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    All resources immediately
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    Cancel any time
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    Get two months free
    Lifetime
    $15,000 $3,000
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    Operation Merriment ($1,000/Year)
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    Good News Texts ($360/Year)
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    Merriment Mail ($240/Year)
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    Never pay again
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    Keep access to products and services as long at they are viable
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    Payment options available
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    Testimonials
    What Merriment Makers are saying...

    "Uncustomary has been a life changer for me. I'm not a naturally positive person.

    A few years ago I was so miserable, isolated, and down on myself that I decided to make a change. That's when I found Mary. She has helped me to see the positive sides of life and myself.

    I've literally changed my entire life within three years using the joy and support that I've received from Mary and the Merriment Makers."

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    Kitty
    "A wholesome, fun and experienced group - I love this community of Merriment Makers! The support and friendships combined with a massive amount of resources, definitely helps me in both my low and high moments."
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    Skye
    "Mary England and her Merriment Makers group is one of the best and most cost effective things you can do to take care of yourself. Laughter truly is the best medicine. Mary's creativity never ceases to amaze me, a 68 year old woman. I chose to get some snail mail and have kept it all. Mary is full of light and love, without being unrealistic. Do yourself the biggest favor you could this week, check out Merriment Makers. Laugh until you cry."
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    Jane
    “I signed up for the Membership and it's like receiving a party in your mailbox each month! Being part of this Membership makes you feel like you have a cheerleader to cheer you on towards your goals every single day! I encourage everyone to become a part of the fun!!!"
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    Melissa

    "M.M. is a place where I can be me. I can speak my truth. I can be supportive and support others whether it's a good day or a bad day and not feel judged for not being positive all the time.

    And on the days where I'm not positive it is a bountiful resource 4 ways I can improve my mental health."

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    Kristi

    "I can’t sing Uncustomary’s praises enough! I stumbled across her website while looking for tools to boost my self-care (It and my self-esteem had taken a nosedive).

    Flash forward two and a half years, I’m catching up with a close friend over dinner and she paused mid conversation to make an observation. 'You really look good...You look happy, and I think it’s because you’ve become more genuine to your true self.' She was right, and I credit a large part of that growth and overall happiness to Uncustomary.

    Mary knows her stuff. Period. Let me add that I am a mental health counselor -- so, I do not make that statement lightly. Uncustomary is the perfect balance of fun, education, and support. And, if there isn’t already an Uncustomary article or tool for what you’re dealing with, Mary can create one. She is such a real, kind, personable being!

    I am a member and loving every bit of it. It’s one of the best, and most reasonable investments I have made for myself since joining Uncustomary two and a half years ago! I’m excited to see where she goes next." 

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    Jenn

    "The Merriment Makers group, created, adored, and run by the one and only Uncustomary Mary England, is an exuberance of light, love, and creativity, with a refreshing dose of reality and practicality.

    Mary gives us a literal rainbow of thoughts, ideas, courses, and strategies to bring more positivity, color, lightness, and self-understanding into our lives. Mary is genuinely interested in our needs, and the group itself reflects that same genuine interest. Being a part of this group has been a delight and I am so looking forward to following where Uncustomary leads us!

    Being a part of this group is a joy and a privilege (even if I’m somewhat of a lurker - even a drop of goodness is worth the membership!"

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    Julia

    "Yaaasss!!! For me, it's the community! I know my fellow Merriment Makers are always cheering for me, keeping me in positive thoughts and vibes!

    And with the craziness of the world, we all need the reminder that we can be MERRY and share it with the world! The more you share, the more you receive 😉 love, happiness, merriment, grace."

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    Tyffany

    "Within the last year or so I've been dealing with a lot of life changes. I was trying to dig myself out of a rut. I decided to join this group and see if it could help me with my goals, and it definitely did.

    While I don't use all the tools available, and there are a lot! I get so much out of the group, and enjoy working at my own pace to get back to myself. The group always has something new to talk about or try and its a great place to go to get a little pick me up!"

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    Deidre

    "This Membership Group is one of the most supportive, colorful, and joyous places I know! Maybe it's because Mary is always surpassing herself with so many bright, shiny ways to love yourself and share your best with the world.

    There are journaling prompts, worksheets, playlists, endless ways to practice self-love and gratitude with a joyful attitude, all kinds of ideas for exploring and expanding the world around you and so much more!

    I love how much more colorful and kind my life has become since I joined! Being a member is awesome and it's truly the best bang-for-your-buck you will ever find! Thank You Mary for everything ~ You've made some dark times lighter and the bright times even brighter!"

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    You only get one life. Let's make it a merry and magical one.
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