Weekly Happiness

by | Jan 10, 2020 | Happiness | 0 comments

Hello beautiful. I know we generally had a lot of big energy, motivation, and inspiration going into 2020, and then a lot of shit happened. I was just telling my Uncustomary Babes that whether it’s natural disasters, war, or stuff going on in your personal life, it’s up to us to change things, not a calendar. Yes the idea of a blank slate is amazing and tempting, but it doesn’t create magic on its own. We are the ones in charge of taking action, of making our goals happen, of protesting, of giving back to the environment. January 1st doesn’t deliver your dreams at your doorstep as much as we might like to think it might.

2020 hit hard, and it’s very much okay to retreat to your safe space for your own mental health, but like I wrote about here, remember that not everyone in the world has the privilege of dissociating from reality or going into a fort to escape what’s happening out there in the world or in your mind. That doesn’t mean you can’t do it, but recognize your privilege, have perspective, and still try your best to do what you can to educate yourself and help.

Speaking of which, like many other entrepreneurs, I’m taking this opportunity to donate funds I raise from my e-book sales to the aid for Australia Bushfires. It’s only $5 to purchase, an immediate download, with 30 pep talks that you can binge read or do one a day for a month. They’re all on different topics and have actionable assignments and inspiration for each lesson. If you already have it for yourself, you can give it to a friend. The benefit of doing something like this is that you are getting a product in exchange for your donation, so it’s a bonus. I’d say everyone wins, but not everyone is winning right now. Also, shoutout to the Naked Philanthropist. She’s a damn hero.

Buy My Pep Talk E-Book – 50% Of Proceeds Go To Australia Bushfire Aid

I missed doing Weekly Happiness posts recently, so there’s a bit of catch up from Christmas and New Year’s photos and moments, so bare with me! However, one non-holiday related thing that happened very recently that is probably my favorite thing is that my dad got a cat!

Her name is Bella! She is extremely teeny and less than a year old. Very shy but also cuddly. My dad is having a hard time not saying “he” and “Bug”, but he is a creature of habit if there ever was one and I am very happy that there is new love in his home.

Bug is never gone. He is everywhere. He changed my dad forever. And me. And we miss him terribly. But I am so grateful that there is space for a new love in his heart. And I’m so grateful for all of you who sent letters and emails with your sympathies and art. They remain up to this day.

I told my dad he can love and grieve Bug as much as he wants and also love Bella, too. The way he loves me and my brother. Love is an ocean, overflowing, unconditional, and deep.

I’m looking forward to getting to know Bella better. See her picture below!

Here’s some recent blog posts you might have missed:

Here’s what I’ve been into lately…

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Pictures from last week:

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Meeting Bella for the first time!

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Creative Labs on New Year’s Eve

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Visiting Miracle On 34th Street, always magical

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The newest addition to the Baltimore madness; the sexy trumpet playing Grinch! — If anyone knows how to find this person online, I am VERY interested!

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Asking to pet this puppy dressed as Santa and their parent just handing them to me to hold

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Doing a Capricorn New Moon abundance spell with my moon babes

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Taking advantage of the free Pixalated photo booth in the Rotunda on New Year’s to show off my Roaring 20’s flapper fashion (click and swipe to see my sequins spin)

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Getting home earlier than expected on New Year’s Eve and deciding our night wasn’t over yet, walking out to the park to see the stars on the playground, and immediately seeing a fox!

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Doing a 2020 year spread! The first card was the theme of the year (Hanged Man – new perspective, releasing things that don’t serve me), second card was clarification of the theme (Ace Of Pentacles – financial abundance) and January was Knight of Swords (ambition/action)

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My dad opening up his presents wearing his cat mask and new snow scraper

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Joe winning me a gnome duck in the claw machine on the first try (Ducks Are So Hot Right Now)

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Taking myself on a walk even when I didn’t feel like it, and this dog being out and very cute

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Duck ornaments

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Altar at Crystals, Candles, & Cauldrons

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Hampden Junque window display

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Our duck in a sleigh

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Doing Qigong with my moon babes for the Capricorn New Moon

Extra Sparkle: * Selling more planners than I expected to, and seeing people using them! If you have purchased one, PLEASE TELL ME so I can add you to my gratitude sticky note wall in my bedroom! * The feeling of knowing there’s a new episode of Jeff Goldblum and a jelly donut waiting for me * Using a gift card to get crystals for gifts and a butterfly wing cape for myself * Jenny bringing me a necklace made out of ducks (stay tuned) * Giving Maura a calendar of guys holding plants * A podcast about how our goals don’t owe us anything * Maura being the best at helping me undress * Freshly dyed hair, waxed eyebrows, and no black heads * Watching a documentary about Robin William’s life and then movies with him in them * Eating at Zataar (Ali Baba bread!) * Being okay with the fact that I didn’t get everything crossed off my end of the year to do list before the ball dropped * Sending videos back and forth to Maura of toys we got ourselves (she got a music box and I got a kaleidoscope just like the one I had when I was a kid) * Doing membership surprise package shopping in Aberdeen and the stores being so quiet, organized, and clean * Visiting Brad’s Light Show * When two completely different ways of doing something are both right * My Zoltar fortune for the new year * Joe telling me I should wear my fancy yellow hats more this year * Sending out gratitude texts to my favorites before I left for New Year’s Eve partying * Getting back to physical journaling instead of just digital * Light up hair extensions * Writing a poem for the first time in a very long time * Maura bringing me a falafel and then us taking turns twinkling chimes over each other bodies that correspond to the different elements * Spoonfuls of Nutella * Praying to the universe and telling her I’m open to surprises * Finally wearing the new work out clothes I got forever ago * Getting my inbox down from 250 to around 160


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What’s on your happiness list this week?




In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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