Weekly Happiness

by | Sep 19, 2019 | Happiness | 0 comments

We’re already more than halfway through September! I gotta tell ya! It’s not going how I planned!

I didn’t expect my cat to die. I didn’t expect to tell the world with what I’ve been struggling with. I didn’t expect to be too sick to be in the group shots of the event it took me months to organize. I didn’t expect to have to move my New Orleans trip that Maura got me for my birthday. I didn’t expect I still wouldn’t have money for my landlord today for September’s rent because the bank is holding all the money in a one in a billion chance trap.

But guess what? 💛 I’m still here! 💛 I still organized amazing event. 💛 I still got to meet some incredible people. 💛 I still keep tapping every day. 💛 I still have a great support system. 💛 I still have great ideas and the desire to make them happen! I am so glad you are here and that we can keep going together!

Thank you all so much for your support on my recent struggles. From my power going out, to losing my cat, to sharing my mental health struggles in 2019, to supporting my new YouTube series. It’s all been really helpful. My dad has been loving the mail you’ve sent him, and I got a bunch from you all yesterday, too. You’re all really sweet. To catch up on what’s been going on, the main stuff is below, and of course there’s my Instagram, too. Thank you again for being here. I honestly couldn’t do it without you.

Have you checked out these recent posts?

Here’s what I’ve been into lately…

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Pictures from last week:

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Virgo New Moon Gathering Altar

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Doing Belly Positive Affirmations In The Park

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Making Our New Moon Intentions

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Having a beautiful send off for Bug

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Seeing signs from Bug all over the place

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Not letting him be forgotten

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Getting surprises from April to cheer me up

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Saying goodbye to the farm we grew up with getting pumpkins at (that’s my dad!)

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Going to visit a British tea spot with Maura

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Tea time with Maura — look at the yarnbombed tea kettle!

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Taking a hot pink Witch Baby bath bomb bath

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This crazy fun door

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The best walk ever

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This shot of a flower in my hair as I was leaving affirmations in the park

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Fresh flowers from Maura that she picked from her garden

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The gift Joe made for Leigh — America’s Ass (bronze painted and mounted)

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Reinstating Sunday Face Mask Night

[Extra Sparkle] * Starting to take walks again * Counting how many dogs I see instead of calories burned * Decorating the house for Autumn –ahem– The Harvest * Seeing Dimitri Reeves perform on the street, contacting him, getting him involved in my event, and having him song fuck me in public while I was wearing lingerie * How everyone thinks of me when they see ducks now * That the person who broke into my car didn’t break a window or steal the entire thing * Abstract shopping cart art * Using a bidet for the first time * Getting an aggressively accurate 8-card spread Tarot card reading * Starting to listen to podcasts almost every day * That big whoosh of wind right before a thunderstorm * Meeting up with Liz who is doing a documentary on The Real Catwalk * A very good chai latte (maybe the best I’ve ever had) * Showing Joe how bad I am at accents (Crikey!) * Extremely gracious friends * A friend buying her family member a 1:1 session with me right after that person said they wanted to work on coping skills * Refusing to move to window #2 at the drive-thru * Halloween ephemera packs * A dog stealing another dog’s ball and then getting distracted by sniffing a third dog’s penis so he dropped the ball and the first dog got his ball back * Finding out how amazing this self-esteem seminar I’m doing at the women’s prison is going to be * A cleansing cry in the shower * Cutting up an apple to dip in hummus * Inspiring cartoons with deep messages * Singing “I’m Not Okay” to myself while sitting on the toilet * Realizing life is short and talk is cheap * Bug inspiring me * A dinner party at Maura’s * Giving myself longer deadlines and time to nap and heal * A cat figurine gift from Janice (one for me and one for my dad) * Meeting Khrystyana and a bunch of bopo amazing people and the Real Catwalk going great (stay tuned for more photos/video!)


Upcoming Unusual Holidays

19 – Talk Like A Pirate Day
20 – Bright Pink Lipstick Day
21 – Day Of Peace
21 – Mabon
21 – Chai Day
21 – Gratitude Day
21 – Mabon
22 – Dear Diary Day
22 – Elephant Appreciation Day
23 – Celebrate Bisexuality Day
24 – Punctuation Day




What’s on your happiness list this week?




In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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