Weekly Happiness

by | Dec 19, 2019 | Happiness | 0 comments

Hey beautiful! How’s life been? I hope you’re well! Since I last checked in, I’ve been busy! I got to be an extra in a music video, which was super cool. Cross that one off the Bucket List! I’ll wait to post about that until her song comes out officially and you can see the video. 🙂 I went to the Krampus Fest Parade and got spanked 9 times for not cooking enough meals this year (or like at all).

I went to an awesome Christmas Party and Maura’s 30th birthday party. Both were chill in a really good way and reminded me that spending time in a present way is really all we need, and we’ve all done such great work to make beautiful space in our homes and in our hearts for the people we care about, so there’s little work left to do to make the party a good time. It just runs itself! Sure, it’s amazing to have a Ben Franklin impersonator at your party or a gospel choir sing on a stage while you dance, but you can go home feeling just as lit up and grateful if you spent the entire night on a couch with the right people!

I started working with a new life coaching client, and I’m really excited about it. I’m only able to take 1 or 2 more people on, so if you’re interested in upleveling your self-love and personal development in 2020 with me in an intense, integrated way, check out my coaching packages! You can also join the Uncustomary Babes Membership Group, and from now till December 30th, you can get a year’s subscription for 15% off! It takes the pressure off of monthly payments, and you’re investing in yourself, which is a revolution! You can rest easy knowing you have a whole year of self-love resources and support. Give yourself that gift! I’m calling it Year Of The Babes!

Speaking of the Babes, on December 23rd, I’m hosting a Live Event where I’m talking about how to reflect on 2019 with gratitude and appreciation, and figure out what you want more of in 2020 and what you want to release. How can we go into 2020 with a beautiful bang? I’ll tell you on December 23rd at 3 PM EST! I’ll have worksheets, affirmations, journaling prompts, a live tapping, and more! It’s an exclusive event for Uncustomary Babes, so join now if you aren’t a member and get instant access! (There will be a replay if you can’t make it live.)

Here are some other posts to check out:

Here’s what I’ve been into lately…

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Pictures from last week:

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Getting my picture taken with Santa

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Santa singing to me (the best Santa ever)

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City Hall at night

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Taking a million photos with Maura on her birthday till we got one where we aren’t blinking

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Going to Krampus Fest and getting spanked

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April’s Christmas Party

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Having to take ball pit balls out of my shoes before I leave

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A romantic date night at Taco Bell (we brought our own reserved sign)

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Twirling in magical alleys

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Stores that get that ducks are so hot right now

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I mean, they like, REALLY get it

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Meeting one of my favorite neighborhood dog’s mom, who knew me from the internet and recognized me without a flower crown!

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The inside of Creative Labs (getting a behind the scenes tour from Jay)

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Joe recording me talking to ducks

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April’s immaculately perfect picturesque living room with a decaying mini wheat, so I made a sign for it and threatened to replace it with one of my own if she ever removes it

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Hot chocolate from The Charmery

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Happy crying when I happened upon a store with a button wall (stay tuned for a video!)

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Having a Vision Board party making day with Maura and LOVING how mine came out

Extra Sparkle: * Asking people what their dog’s names are out of the window of my car * Joe yelling at the leader of Krampus Fest parade to get 8 lashes because he didn’t sign the Batman version of ‘Jingle Bells’ * Deciding that a black hole in space is actually a universal prolapse * Getting a wine glass set in a Secret Santa swap * Hawaiian bread as slices * Pop punk Christmas songs * Listening to Joe exhaustedly serenade me on a karaoke machine * Talking about when I used to make shapes with leaves and rocks at the lake we went to on vacation * How progressive the movie ‘Life Size 2’ actually is * Celebrating Maura’s 30th birthday and the cards she wrote all her guests * Personal vegan pizza making * Making a conscious effort to not gossip and complain and then finding out that was The Vortex’s challenge this week, too! * People signing up for the Basic Yearly Plan * Seeing the last full moon of the decade in my sign, Gemini, at 12:12 AM on 12/12 * A duck shower curtain (they are so hot right now) * Doing a 7-day Qigong challenge and seeing my balance/strength improve * Making my goals for 2020


Upcoming Unusual Holidays

18 – Answer The Phone Like Buddy The Elf Day
18 – Bake Cookies Day
19 – Free Shipping Day
19 – Look For An Evergreen Day
20 – Ugly Christmas Sweater Day
20 – Go Caroling Day
20 – Sangria Day
20 – Underdog Day
21 – Humbug Day
21 – Flashlight Day
21 – Short Girl Appreciation Day
21 – Solstice/Yule
21 – Global Orgasm Day
21 – Look On The Bright Side Day
22 – Be A Lover Of Silence Day
23 – Festivus
23 – Metric Conversion Day
24 – Eggnog Day




What’s on your happiness list this week?




In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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