Weekly Happiness

by | Apr 30, 2020 | Happiness | 0 comments

Hi! I’m so glad to report that I’m feeling more consistently better, motivated, creative, relaxed, and okay. After many weeks of so many two day stints where I couldn’t get out of bed, being depressed, making myself sick, neglecting my self-care, and feeling bogged down by the pandemic on top of my own personal stuff, I made an effort to start by cleaning up the clutter that was really bothering me. I can’t tell you how big of a difference it made in my mindset! Not seeing piles in my office and in my bedroom has really helped me. I definitely agree that a cluttered physical space represents a cluttered mindset. There’s still work to do, but focusing on my home environment has made a big improvement.

My financial issues are finally shaking loose. I’m making major breakthroughs and realizations in therapy that are helping to recognize patterns that have started in childhood and continued into as far as present day. I’m getting back into my Magical Daily Ritual, if it’s only tapping/EFT. I’m catching up on content. I even went out to grocery shop and did it in record time without having a panic attack! As a result of this, my relationship is less stressed and feeling lighter and happier than it has in a long time, and I feel very grateful for my life right now.

I still get very upset at the news, feel anxiety about people’s behaviors that I can’t control, and feel fear about what could possibly happen to the world, my loved ones, myself. All of it. I would love for this good feeling to stay, and I’m going to do everything I can for it to stay as consistent as possible, but I also know that my own mental health and the state of the world is making it difficult for all of us to do all the things, including feel okay consistently. I’m not manifesting feeling badly, but I’m okay with not feeling okay. I’m also okay with feeling okay and sharing when I feel good with you. I hope being transparent about my ups and downs is helpful for you.

 

Today is the last day of the month, so in addition to the weekly Gratitude Train in the Uncustomary Babes Group (which is still 50% off!), I posted the Top Ten Things About April worksheet. Here is what I wrote to them:

I know it can be difficult to think about “highlights” during a pandemic, but the reason you’re here is because you’re ABLE to find perspective, practice gratitude, and look for love in life even (especially) when it’s difficult!

It’s okay if your Top Ten Things list for April looks different than February or your list from 6 months ago. It’s okay if they don’t involve interactions with other people. It’s okay if there aren’t events on the list. It’s okay if it’s “I felt good for three days in a row!”

What made you feel good this month? Everything is relative! What made you feel good this month will be different than last month and next month. Every day is a unique experience and we get to create it.

If you notice a feeling of imbalance (check out the Tarot Reading on the Temperance card/Taurus Season), there doesn’t need to be judgment. This is just a call to action for you. What do you want to do a little differently next month? How can you spend five minutes every day making your life feel good?

Also, if you have an Uncustomary Planner, NOW is the time to update it! It’s okay if you missed pages. And you can still get your copy. This is actually an amazing time for my planner, because it’s not about planning your day, it’s about celebrating your life, the world, practicing self-care, and personal development! I will be sending out a May Bucket List alternative tonight or tomorrow at the latest to people who have the planner. If you need one let me know 🙂

PS – Pencil me in for 2 PM EDT on Saturday May 2nd for an Instagram Live with Aurora Lady on Getting Out Of Your Own Way During A Pandemic!

Some posts you might have missed:

Here’s what I’ve been into lately…

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
Cute displays of plants

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The smell of the H&S Bakery

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Writing birthday cards to people I can’t be with

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
Amazing duck art from Tranifer

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This section of homes in Fells Point

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Extremely pink window displays

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
These white flowers that have been popping up everywhere that I’ve never seen before, and believe them to be Pandemic Faeries (anyone know what they’re called?)

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
Inspirational handwritten messages in windows

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
Intense gnome faeries gardens

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My favorite CBD lip balm company (who also knows ducks are so hot) sending me a rainbow unicorn duck gift (check them out!)

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
Phones in unusual places – speaking of, have you called the Inspirational Hotline lately?

Weekly Happiness | Uncustomary
One of the most beautiful doors I’ve ever seen

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Flower pinwheels

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Hanging out on a bench in the sunshine with Joe while he recreates a Trigger Happy TV sketch (Grey Squirrel) and pretends to be a spy who just looks at dogs and rates them all over 10/10 and ends every rating with “very good boy”

Extra Sparkle: * Delivery services, including prescription if I ever need it * So many good stand up specials on Netflix and Amazon Prime * How well the New Moon Workshop went (you can still get the Google Drive full of resources and the replay for $5!) * Getting so many Etsy orders I’m selling out of things! * How well the Creative Dreams Support Group is going, I decided to share some of the resources in the Uncustomary Babes Group * Walking into my bedroom when it smells really good * Playing with LED/flood lights and lingerie * Decorating the porch swing with fake flowers and butterflies * Having my feet rubbed with lotion * The neighborhood ducks being back!! * Being asked to be a part of a Baltimore Bloggers group and finding so many amazing people I didn’t know about * Helping people write scripts to have difficult conversations * Joe’s stimulus check coming in * Doing an Instagram Live with Yzabelle * Seeing nature take over * Looking through old happy journals

 


Unusual Holidays

29 – Dance Day
29 – Denim Day
29 – Wish Day
29 – Guide Dogs Day
30 – Poem In Your Pocket Day
30 – Beltane
30 – Honesty Day
1 – Dandelion Day
1 – Batman Day
1 – May Day
1 – Mother Goose Day
2 – Naked Gardening Day
2 – Learn To Ride A Bike Day
2 – Scrapbooking Day
3 – Lemonade Day
3 – Laughter Day
3 – Paranormal Day
4 – Bird Day
5 – Astronaut Day




Sharing the video everyone keeps sending me thinking it was me! April says she’ll make me a balloon rainbow costume. Now I just need a bunch of dogs willing to wear rainbow costumes to recreate it. 🙂

What’s on your happiness list this week?




In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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