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50 Ways To Promote Peace

September 21st is the International Day Of Peace. This is an “unusual” holiday as it’s not observed on your run-of-the-mill calendar, but the concept shouldn’t be unusual at all (although to many it unfortunately is). I wonder if there’s a tally somewhere of all the pageant participants that answered the question, “If you could change […]

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50 Ways To Make A Mess

I believe creativity is a huge part of the process, journey, and concept of self-love. In fact, it’s one of my 10 Commandments of Self-Love and my blog’s tag line is “Where Self-Love Meets Creativity”! Creativity is something that saved me when I needed help, and I truly believe we are all creative and it […]

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50 Ways To Relax

1. Collect flat/smooth stones and skip them over bodies of water 2. Swing your heart out at a playground 3. Smell delicious things like candles, flowers, cake batter, and specific scents proven to calm you down like chamomile, lavender, and sandalwood 4. Explore a park, forest, waterfall, beach, or other area of nature, and think […]

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Fuck Small Talk: 50 Things To Talk About Instead Of The Weather

When Joe and I first started texting, he said, “Ah, I’m not good at this small talk stuff”. So I said, “Okay, fuck small talk. Let’s big talk instead”. He asked, “What’s big talk?” and I answered with a list of things about me that are real, true, interesting, raw, and not things you would […]

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