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Loving yourself for who you are and leading a happy life are great goals, but they’re not always easy ones.

Anything related to building self-esteem, expressing yourself, or finding happiness are things I can help you with.

I’m Mary England, and it’s my passion to make other people happy and teach them how to love and accept themselves. After struggling with mental illness for twenty years and working in and studying the field of psychology for five, I decided to start the business Uncustomary to share my personal and professional experience with mental health in a way that translates into self-help.

I’m here to show you how to love who you are, express yourself, and embrace your inner weird. I want to remind you what it’s like to play out in the street with the wonder of a child. I want to take your hand, and tell you sincerely that you are beautiful.

Stop wishing for the happy life you want, and make things happen now!

Recent Blog Posts

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Did you know December 5th is Bathtub Party Day?! This is a pretty important one, babes. Baths are pretty magical and […]

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50 Places To Leave Guerrilla Art/Random Acts Of Kindness

After my post today about street art buttons/portals, I received a request for places you can leave guerrilla art and […]

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Street Art Portal Buttons

Once on Pinterest, I saw someone change out the sign that said, “Press Button To Walk” at the intersection to something […]

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Self Love Prompts: Five Things I'm Grateful For Today

Self-Love Prompts is a series I started after creating a list of 50 self-love writing prompts. People like you select […]

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Podcast: Punk Is The Ultimate Self-Love

Did you see I posted a new podcast? It was inspired by my fascination with punk, scenes, and my absolute […]

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Weekly Happiness

Hey hey hey! I hope your past week of potential Thanksgiving, Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, Cyber Monday, and everything […]

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