How To Use Your White Privilege To End Your White Privilege

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Recently, I made a post where I shared an installation I made with the words “use your white privilege to end your white privilege”. (I recommend you read that post first before continuing on here.) The post was definitely about the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement, how people reacted to my installation, and ways I’ve seen people be racist without realizing it. But someone pointed out in the comments that I didn’t actually demonstrate how to use your white privilege to end your white privilege. Good call.

“People will not listen unless you’re an old, white man, so I’m an old white man and I will use that to help people who need it.” – Patrick Stewart

The reality is things are not currently equal in this world. It sucks. If you’re an old, white man, or just a white person that means you have privilege in this world whether you want it or not. The good news is you can use that privilege as power to stand up for the people who aren’t being heard. I’ve seen a bunch of memes, for lack of a better word, circulating social media with words like “Can you imagine if old white men cared as much about date rape as they did about someone not standing for the Pledge Of Allegiance?” That can be said for so many things, but the point remains. If you have a platform, even if that platform is just your race because of the unfortunate way our society is set up and continues to operate, then you have a responsibility to use it.

Here are 12 ways you can use your white privilege to end your white privilege:

  • Learn what white privilege is. “Privilege is when you think something is not a problem because it’s not a problem to you personally.” Do your own research. Take a class. Read a book.

 

  • Educate. Don’t count on people of color to always be the ones to speak up. It’s not (only) their job. It actually can make more of a stand if a white person enters the conversation to call another white person out for being racist.

 

  • Protest. Hold a (peaceful?) protest or rally in your community with signs, chanting, marching, etc. to address this specific issue. Get the media involved so your efforts get noticed, televised, and shared with people who both agree with you whole-heartedly and people who get pissed off white people are advocating for the rights of black people. Here are 10 Alternatives For Activism for people with anxiety.

 

  • Vote. Don’t just vote, but pay attention to who you’re voting for. Local elections, primaries, everything. It’s not only important for you to go into your voting location every four years and select which president you want in the White House. It is your responsibility as a citizen to educate yourself on the policies every person who has the potential to be in any elected office supports.

 

  • Ask people of color what they’re concerned about. Listen, and do your best to put yourself in their shoes. It’s hard to imagine something until you’ve experienced it first hand, but try your hardest. Use the answers they give you to go out and try to correct the problems they are struggling with in a very real way every single day. This doesn’t mean accosting people of color. You can also just listen to what’s being put out on the internet.

 

  • Document brutality. If you see a person getting arrested or aggressively attacked by a police officer, pull out your phone. You are allowed to record these things. Don’t let the police tell you differently. Here are your specific rights that you should know as a photographer. Do you think the recent deaths of black men would have got as much attention if every detail wasn’t recorded on film? If it’s not documented it becomes a debate between what the cops say versus what the victim and witnesses say, combined with evidence.

 

  • Don’t appropriate other cultures and let other people know when they’re doing it. Sometimes it might be out of ignorance, but that means they need to be educated. Most people have figured out it’s not okay to wear a traditional Native American outfit on Halloween because it’s not a “costume”, it’s a culture. The same thing goes for a lot of things you might not even realize aren’t yours to use. Not to go on a tangent, but relatively recently Blake Lively posted a photo of herself at an awards show with the caption “LA face with an Oakland booty” and people were outraged. I thought the outrage was mostly unwarranted at first. “Baby Got Back” is an extremely popular song, even decades after it was initially released. It’s a song people of all races enjoy dancing to. My argument was two-fold. 1) There are really important matters of racism that we should probably focus our outrage on instead of worrying about what an actress with an empirically beautiful face and objectively large butt wrote under her Instagram post. 2) If I’m allowed to sing the lyrics of Sir Mix-A-Lot’s most famous song, own the album, and dance to it when it comes on… why can’t I quote it? That seems like a grey area which is why I thought the level of outrage was unwarranted. But I changed my mind, and here’s why: A woman commented on (the now very long Facebook thread on my page) and said something to the effect of “In matters of feminism, wouldn’t you prefer a woman to make the call? It’s the same thing here. You can argue all you want, but in matters of racism and cultural appropriation, don’t you think people of that race and that culture should get to make the call?” And I shut up. Because she was right. Here is a list of things that are actually black culture that you’ve probably been using without realizing it. It’s good to be aware.

 

  • Be open-minded. Like I shared above, it’s important to not only have the uncomfortable and sometimes outraging conversations with friends, coworkers, and strangers but it’s important to be open to new information, opinions, and facts you didn’t know existed. That woman changed my mind on Blake Lively’s usage of Sir Mix-A-Lot’s lyrics. I don’t think she should be taken to trial or burned at the stake, but I know I won’t be doing something similar in my lifetime. I’m grateful that I was able to change my mind and that I’m willing to share it with you now.

 

  • Shop at stores and businesses owned by people of color. I know way too many people here in my city (which is predominantly black) who won’t go to “bad neighborhoods”. When they say “bad”, they mean “black”. Are there higher occurrences of crime and lower socioeconomic statuses in these neighborhoods? Yes. But that is largely due to the system racism that has been in place for decades and decades. Going into a white mom and pop shop to buy a snack from the black owner isn’t any different than doing the same thing at the 7-11 on your block from the 16 year-old white girl. Black people are oppressed in all sorts of ways, and that includes financially. Help out where you can. Buy black art.

 

  • Create political art. Make street art installations, videos, songs, murals, sidewalk chalk, poetry. Pass out flyers, decals, and stickers with “Black Lives Matter” written on them. If you have a platform like a blog, YouTube channel, or even a bunch of Instagram followers — use it to talk about this issue. You’re going to piss people off. You’re going to lose followers. But if you lose a racist follower, does that even really count?

 

  • Do your homework. If someone tells you that something like affirmative action is affecting them negatively and that’s the reason you didn’t get into college, be ready with the actual facts to let them know that they are incorrect. If someone tells you black people have just as much of a chance as every else, be ready with statistics. Know your shit.

 

  • Hold authority figures accountable for racial stereotyping and acts of inequality. Not just cops, but also in your workplace and life in general. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been doing guerrilla art on the street (which technically could be illegal on counts of destruction of property, littering, or trespassing) and cops walk past me. They’ll even say hi to me in a nice way. And then, here’s the kicker, go confront a black person who is literally just standing there minding his business. I’ve never seen it escalate to the point where I’d need to start recording or call for additional help, but that’s not the point.

 

I welcome all other ideas of how to use your white privilege to end your white privilege. Please share in the comments so we can start a conversation that can be useful and implemented in our real, everyday lives. You can also listen to my podcast on Black Lives Matter to hear this all together with other perspectives, and share it with your friends.

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In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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