Having Trouble Recalling Certain Memories? Here’s What You Can Do

by | Aug 3, 2020 | How To | 0 comments

 

Memory loss is something that plagues a large percentage of the American population. In fact, recent studies have shown that about one out of every nine people over the age of 45 reports experiencing at least some memory issues.

This can obviously be frustrating beyond belief. People enjoy recalling memories from when they were younger and talking about them. And if they’re not able to do this, it can feel like they were stripped of certain parts of their lives.

It can also be frustrating because it can, unfortunately, indicate the presence of serious health problems. There are millions of Americans every year who are diagnosed with dementia, which is a condition that can affect both short term memory loss and long term memory loss.

Regardless of whether you’re dealing with a condition like dementia that is taking a toll on your memory or just having a hard time recalling memories like you used to, there are things you can do to make it a little easier to remember things. Here are some ways to get around memory loss.

Share Your Memories With Other People Early and Often

If you don’t talk about your memories on a regular basis, it’s not going to be long before they fade into the background and become distant memories. It’s going to be tough for you to remember what happened a few years or even a few decades ago if it’s been years since you talked about it.

With this in mind, it’s very important for you to share your memories with other people as often as you can. They’ll usually enjoy hearing you speak about things that happened to you in the past.

You’ll get something out of sharing your memories with others, too. You’ll be forced to take a step back in time and discuss something that you may not have discussed in a little while now. And that will help to crystalize a memory in your brain for the long haul.

Your family might joke around with you and tell you that they’re tired of you telling the same stories over and over again. But you’ll be doing a good thing for yourself when you keep your mind sharp by retelling old stories multiple times.

Ask People to Fill in the Blanks When You Forget Certain Memories

One of the reasons why it’s so important for you to share your memories with others is so that they get familiar with them and can almost recite them word-for-word after hearing about them a few times. This will give them a chance to step in and fill in the blanks if you ever have a difficult time remembering a certain aspect of a story that you always tell.

They’ll be able to jog your memory in an instant so that you remember a detail that you might have left out otherwise. You’ll be so glad that they’re able to do it because it’ll prevent the frustration that can come along with struggling to remember something.

You might be tempted to yell at a family member or friend for filling in the blanks without your consent and ruining a good story (at least in your mind!). But the truth is that you’ll be happy to have someone to help you recall memories at times.

Find Ways to Trigger Memories Whenever Possible

There are so many different things that can trigger a memory when you’re going about your business on a regular old day. You might be walking down the street and hear an old song that instantly sends you back in time by making you remember a memory that you made long ago.

This happens because your brain has a tendency to package sights, smells, sounds, and more together in an effort to make stronger memories. It’s why you might remember a date that you went on 20 years ago simply because you hear a certain song playing in a store or smell a certain type of food being cooked in your kitchen.

To keep your memory strong and to make it easier for you to recall memories, you should surround yourself with things that will trigger memories all the time. These things can include photographs, yearbooks, records, and more.

The more of these things that you keep hanging around, the more likely you’ll be to sit and share your memories with others. It’ll go a long way towards strengthening your memories and your ability to remember things as a whole. It’ll also spread happiness throughout your life.

Take Part in Brain Exercises Designed to Give Your Memory a Boost

As we mentioned earlier, people tend to start losing some of their working memory as they get older. Even if it never develops into full-blown dementia, age-related memory loss is a very real thing that affects millions of people.

If you’re determined not to have to deal with this type of memory loss, you might benefit from participating in brain exercises in a big way. There are dozens of different brain exercises that you can do day in and day out to keep your brain sharper.

Here are just a few of the brain exercises that you can take part in:

  • Doing puzzles
  • Working math problems out in your head
  • Attempting to memorize short lists of things

Many studies have also suggested that learning a new skill is something that could produce great results for those having memory problems. Whether you choose to learn a new sport, learn a new language, or learn a new recipe, you’ll be doing something that could very well work wonders for your brain.

Talk With Your Doctor About Any Memory Issues You’re Having

If you ever start to notice that you’re having difficulty remembering things all the time, you might be tempted to keep that information close to the vest. Most people don’t want to believe that there is anything wrong with their brains.

But you’ll be doing a huge disservice to yourself if you don’t speak with anyone about the memory loss problems that you’re having. These problems could spiral out of control and get way worse if nothing is done about them.

Your first step should be to discuss your memory loss issues with someone you trust (a spouse, sibling, best friend, etc.) before turning to your doctor for help. You might even want to have your loved one come to see your doctor with you to make sure you understand everything that is said to you.

In a perfect world, your doctor will be able to come up with a plan for helping you slow down memory loss. There is still so much work to be done in this area from a research standpoint. But doctors have made great strides in the area of memory loss lately, which is why seeing a doctor could really help you.

See If There Are Any Supplements That Can Help Improve Memory

There aren’t any magic pills (yet!) that are going to eradicate memory loss for you and allow you to enjoy all of the memories that you ever made. But there are some supplements that you might be able to take to stop memory loss from slowing you down as much as it does now.

After speaking with your doctor, you should get more info on how some of these supplements work so that you can take full advantage of them. They could be worth a shot for you if you’re finding that it’s becoming harder and harder to recall certain things.

Continue Making New Memories and Embracing Them

As people get older, they sometimes tend to slow them and stop making many new memories. This is a real shame because it doesn’t give them much of an opportunity to share their latest memories with people.

If you’re physically and mentally able to do it, you should continue to make new memories by going on new adventures. Getting out and seeing the world will give you an opportunity to do this.

And who knows? Making new memories might even jog some old memories and bring them back to life. It won’t be long at all before you’re sharing both your new and old memories with those around you and spreading all of the happiness that you feel.

You Don’t Have to Let Memory Issues Keep You Down

You aren’t going to be able to remember all of the memories that you’ve ever made in life on a whim. That’s just not how your brain is designed to work.

But you should be able to remember at least some of your memories so that you can share them with others. If you can’t, it would be a good idea for you to do some of the things we’ve talked about here. They might be just what the doctor ordered when it comes to keeping your memory intact.

Read through the other articles on our blog to get more great advice on living a healthier and happier life.

 

In Columbia, Maryland, there’s a former grocery store that has been transformed into a department store for mythical creatures, time travelers, and intergalactic tourists.

It’s called DoodleHATCH.

You can groom a unicorn, visit an intergalactic space station, climb onto a giant’s bed, meet guinea pigs, explore an artist’s studio, and discover approximately a million other things that somebody actually sat down and made.

It’s a nonprofit interactive art museum, a community project, an educational resource, and one of my favorite places I’ve ever discovered.

And it could be demolished as part of a proposed redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center.

But there’s still an opportunity to help.

You don’t need to donate money. You don’t need to live in Maryland. And you don’t need to know anything about zoning laws.

You can start by writing an email.

🚨 Here's what's happening

Developer Columbia Concepts has proposed redeveloping the Long Reach Village Center in Columbia, Maryland.

The proposal would replace existing buildings with new housing, recreational facilities, and other development.

Unfortunately, that puts a whole collection of existing community resources at risk of being demolished, including:

  • DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum
  • Maryland Fashion Institute
  • A makerspace used for community education
  • Local restaurants, shops, and service businesses
  • Early childhood education and community programs
  • A 140-foot-long mural created by approximately 100 community members

This isn’t just about losing a fabulous museum. It’s about losing an entire collection of places that people have built, supported, and relied on.

And there’s another possibility!

🌈 Meet The REALM

Lee Andersen, the founder of DoodleHATCH, and her nonprofit ManneqART want to preserve the existing community resources and transform the village center into an arts and culture destination called The REALM.

Imagine a place where artists have studios, children have room to explore, students can learn creative skills, people can attend performances, and local businesses continue serving their neighbors.

There are plans for a performing arts space, more opportunities for artists, and a Witches Kitchen that might serve you a horrible-disgusting breakfast.

Which, personally, I think sounds promising.

The people behind DoodleHATCH are gathering support to oppose the developer’s zoning proposal and advocate for The REALM.

And they’d love your help.

💌 How to help in about two minutes

If you live in Howard County, Maryland

If you’re 18 or older, DoodleHATCH is asking eligible county residents to visit the museum and sign their petition in person.

📍DoodleHATCH Interactive Art Museum

8775 Cloudleap Court, Unit 101
Columbia, MD 21045

⏱️ Museum hours: Friday–Sunday, 10 AM–5 PM.

And while you’re there, I highly recommend exploring the museum. Bring someone who needs a reminder that being an adult doesn’t mean you have to stop enjoying ridiculous things.

If you don't live in Howard County

You can still help!

DoodleHATCH is collecting emails from people who oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and support preserving the existing arts and community resources through The REALM.

Send your email to: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

Suggested subject: Support The REALM | Oppose Columbia Concepts Zoning Proposal ZB 1132M

You can write your own message or use one of the templates below.

You don’t need to write an essay. A short, genuine message explaining what you support and why is enough to participate in this email campaign.

✍️ What should your email say?

To make your position clear, include these three things:

1. Say what you’re opposing.

State that you oppose the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center, case ZB 1132M.

2. Say what you’re supporting.

Express your support for preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, existing community resources, and the proposed arts and culture center called The REALM.

3. Explain why you care.

This is the part that makes your email yours.

Maybe you’ve visited DoodleHATCH. Maybe you’re a parent who wants more creative places for children. Maybe you’re an artist, an educator, or someone who thinks it’s important to protect the few spaces where people can explore and make things without needing to buy something.

Maybe you live across the country and just learned that there’s a department store for mythical creatures in Maryland, and you think the world would be a little less interesting without it.

That’s a perfectly good reason to care.

💌 Email templates you can copy

Option 1: Short, simple, and effective

Subject: Support The REALM | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts zoning amendment and redevelopment of the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M).

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the existing community services and small businesses, as well as the proposal to create The REALM arts and culture center.

Creative and educational spaces like these provide valuable opportunities for families, artists, students, and the wider community. I believe they deserve to be protected.

Please include my email with the messages of support being collected for DoodleHATCH and The REALM.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 2: For artists, creatives, and fellow merriment makers

Subject: Please Protect DoodleHATCH and Support The REALM

Hello,

I’m writing in opposition to Columbia Concepts’ proposed redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and in support of The REALM.

I believe communities need places where creativity, imagination, and play are actively encouraged.

DoodleHATCH is an extraordinary example of what can happen when artists and community members are given room to create something that doesn’t fit into an ordinary commercial space.

Places like this are rare. They encourage people of all ages to experiment, learn, explore, and connect with one another.

I support preserving DoodleHATCH, the Maryland Fashion Institute, the existing community resources, and the vision for The REALM.

Thank you for collecting these messages and advocating for the creative community.

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

Option 3: For people who've visited DoodleHATCH

Subject: Please Save DoodleHATCH | Oppose ZB 1132M

Hello,

I’m writing to express my opposition to the proposed Columbia Concepts redevelopment and zoning amendment for the Long Reach Village Center (ZB 1132M), and my support for The REALM.

I’ve personally visited DoodleHATCH, and I want to share why I believe it’s worth preserving.

[Write two or three sentences about your experience. What did you see? Who did you bring? What surprised you? What made you want to return?]

DoodleHATCH is more than a collection of exhibits. It’s a place where creativity is something people can actively participate in, and I believe losing it would be a tremendous loss to the community.

I support preserving the museum, the Maryland Fashion Institute, and the other existing community resources through the proposed arts and culture center, The REALM.

Please include my email with the messages of support you’re collecting.

Thank you,

[Your Name]
[Your City/State]

A few tips before you hit send

DO:

  • Use your real name.

  • Include your city and state so organizers can understand where support is coming from.

  • Clearly identify the redevelopment proposal you’re opposing.

  • Specifically mention your support for The REALM.

  • Add a personal sentence or two if you can.

  • Be respectful, even if you’re frustrated.

  • Share this page with other people who might want to help.

DON’T:

  • Pretend to be a Howard County resident if you’re not.

  • Claim to have visited DoodleHATCH if you haven’t.

  • Make up experiences or information.

  • Send threatening, insulting, or harassing messages.

  • Assume your email is the same thing as signing the official petition.

  • Worry about making your message sound impressive. Clear and genuine is better than elaborate.

💌 The Save DoodleHATCH Email Machine

A few clicks, a little personality, and an email that helps support DoodleHATCH and The REALM. No account or signup required.

What's your connection to DoodleHATCH?
Why does protecting places like this matter to you?
✨ Your email preview
To: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com
Subject:

Your information stays in your browser until you choose to copy or open the message. The email does not send automatically. Emails support DoodleHATCH's advocacy campaign; they are not the same as official petition signatures or zoning testimony. Please review the message before sending.

🐹 Wait. What exactly is DoodleHATCH?

I’m so glad you asked.

DoodleHATCH is an interactive art museum in Columbia, Maryland, created by artist, designer, and professional generator of wildly ambitious ideas, Lee Andersen.

The museum is designed as a pretend department store for mythological creatures, time travelers, and galactic tourists.

There are dozens of installations, and unlike most museums, you’re encouraged to touch things, explore, and participate.

There’s also an artist’s studio full of fabric and handmade garments, workshops, special events, birthday parties, free books, and opportunities for local artists to share their work.

The museum welcomes families and children, but adults are absolutely allowed to enjoy themselves, too.

And the woman behind it has spent decades bringing creativity into the community through fashion, festivals, education, and public art.

I discovered DoodleHATCH in 2020 and loved it so much that I started volunteering.

I’ve been back multiple times, and there are still things I haven’t seen.

That’s part of what makes it special. You can keep discovering things because people keep creating them.

You don't have to live near DoodleHATCH to care about it.

There are Merriment Makers everywhere.

People turning empty buildings into art spaces. People organizing parades. People teaching kids how to sew, paint, dance, or build things. People putting enormous amounts of time into projects that make their communities more interesting.

Sometimes they’re running nonprofits. Sometimes they’re working out of their garages. Sometimes they’re making something weird in a strip mall that you might drive past a hundred times without realizing what’s inside.

I hope you’ll help protect DoodleHATCH.

And I hope you’ll look around your own community, too. Visit the strange little museum. Go to the local art show. Find the person who makes giant puppets or organizes an absurd annual festival. Spend your money at the independent shop with the handmade things.

There are people everywhere creating reasons for us to be curious about being alive.

I’d like them to be able to keep doing that.

Help save DoodleHATCH. Help protect The REALM. Help keep the world interesting.

💌 Email: Lilou@DoodleHATCH.com

🌈 Visit: DoodleHATCH.com

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