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Your Closure Is Realizing You Deserve More

I had a relationship this year that would seem like a blip on the map to most people, but it definitely made a significant impact on me and clearly continues to affect my cognition and choices. This relationship was not one that was offered with a nice gift of closure. It simply wasn’t available and […]

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Uncustomary Manifesto

Six years ago, when I started guerrilla art and named myself Uncustomary, I decided it was very important for me to write what I called at that time a “collective”, which I’d like to now refer to as my manifesto. Six years down the road, I thought it was appropriate to update it. It’s surprisingly […]

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I’m Queer!

On the last day of June, I wanted to officially announced on Instagram that I identify myself as Queer. I’ve thought a lot about my sexuality since I ended my long-term relationship at the beginning of this year, and had a lot of interesting and opening experiences. I’ve always found women to be more attractive […]

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Uncustomary Turns 30

I always admired my grandmother, Nannie, for a lot of reasons. One of them was she never lied or cared about her age. If anyone ever wanted to know her age, at any stage of her life, she would flat out tell them. It didn’t matter to her. It was a number that represented how much […]

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