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A Pear Is A Fruit, Not A Body Type

A Pear Is A Fruit, Not A Body Type

by Uncustomary | Nov 4, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

“I’M A FRUIT, NOT A BODY TYPE!!” – Pear
Body Positivity + Halloween Costumes

Body Positivity + Halloween Costumes

by Uncustomary | Oct 3, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

I see too many people scared to wear costumes because they don’t love their bodies and are worried what they’ll look like. Some people criticize others for using this holiday as a time to “dress slutty”, and I think we should probably start...
Shave Because You Want To, Not Because You Have To

Shave Because You Want To, Not Because You Have To

by Uncustomary | Sep 5, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

Empowerment is different things to different people. Sometimes someone not shaving their armpits is a conscious act of protesting the patriarchy. Sometimes it’s laziness. Sometimes it’s just a personal preference. Know there is nothing wrong with shaving...
All Bodies Are Beautiful

All Bodies Are Beautiful

by Uncustomary | Jul 27, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

That means yours, too! KittyPinkStars
Fat Flesh Doesn’t Equal Nudity

Fat Flesh Doesn’t Equal Nudity

by Uncustomary | Jun 6, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

Recently, I was asking for Instagram tips and someone said something which has been mentioned to me many times before, which is that they don’t like how much “nudity” I post on social media. I’ve been thinking about it, and here’s my...
Body Positivity Isn’t Just For Curvy White Women

Body Positivity Isn’t Just For Curvy White Women

by Uncustomary | Mar 2, 2017 | Body Positivity, Self-Love

Remember those Dove ads? They were a great start for body positivity. It showed women who weren’t Victoria’s Secret models standing, happily, in their underwear and posing for the camera. It was awesome, but as with any societal issue — it was just...
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Excel adult high school online

merrimentmaker

When I built Positive Pulse, I wanted a fun and ea When I built Positive Pulse, I wanted a fun and easy place for weird, wonderful, sensitive humans. 🌈 A colorful corner of the internet filled with pep talks, kindness missions, and reminders that you belong.

I still do. 💛

You showed up beautifully. Now our community has grown to nearly 1,000 members 🙀 and costs about $600 a month to keep running (hosting, tools, community care - before I even count my time).

But to keep showing up with 250+ resources and consistent joy missions, ❣️ I need your help.

🪧 To sustain it and keep building new spaces Nov 21, Positive Pulse we’re introducing Merriment Dues: 🪙 just 89¢/month.

That tiny coin 💰 keeps the vault, events, and kindness missions alive, for you and for everyone who finds their way here next! 🫶

Upgrade before November 11th and you’ll also receive a 🎁 bonus:

🌼 The Reconnect To Your Body Workbook ( 30+ pages ) - 📒 a guide to coming home to yourself, understanding avoidance, and rediscovering what it feels like to be in your body again. (💲Value $29)

You’ll start with a 🆓 week free trial and 🔐 lock in your rate for life.

💞 If you’re already with us, log in and upgrade 📅 by Nov. 21st!

💞 If you don’t know about it, 👀 check it out!
This week’s Group Mission: Street Treasure Hunt This week’s Group Mission: Street Treasure Hunt 🪙

Go for a walk and let your eyes 👀 get weird.

Collect 3 “street treasures”! 🤔 Anything that catches your curiosity: a bottle cap, a feather, a neon scrap of paper. 🪶🫙🔑

👩‍🎨 Bring them home and turn them into 🏰 a tiny shrine, collage, or guerrilla art piece. 🖼️

The goal is to remember that meaning isn’t found, it’s made! 🪡

✨ Bonus: take your creation back outside and leave it for someone else to find. 🛣️

Tag @merrimentmaker and use #11KActs so your micro-museum of magic joins the collective archive.

🎲 What’s the strangest treasure you’ve ever found?
Happy November! 🎉 Here’s a peek 👀 into so Happy November! 🎉

Here’s a peek 👀 into some merriment missions + moments from the last month!

What have YOU done to be instigate 💞 kindness, fun, silliness, absurdity, and love? ⤵️

#11KActs #RandomActsOfKindness #RAOK
❣️ This Week’s 11K Community Feature is from ❣️ This Week’s 11K Community Feature is from Desmond!

Desmond is a fantastic Merriment Maker. 😀 He is also a photographer. And he loves going to as many events as he can to experience them and document people having a great time, being themselves, and having a great time. 🎉

He also is unlikely to be in front of the camera. But he makes sure that he does document himself once a week, as part of an ongoing project called 👑 “Tiara Tuesdays”.

As part of Tiara Tuesdays, he: ⤵️

💛 1) Wears a tiara all day (even at his very professional/government job) 🫅🏽

💛 2) Carries around tiaras in his bag all day 🎒

💛 3) Takes a photo of himself wearing his tiara 📸

💛 4) Whenever someone compliments or asks him about his tiara, he will tell them about his project and then offer them one of his extra tiaras as a free gift! 🎁

This is just one of the many ways Desmond is a Merriment Maker in Baltimore, Maryland, and I’m proud to call him my friend. 🤩

➡️ Find him at @picturesofusdotnet 

Submit YOUR acts at 11K! 🗳️

#11KActs #Tiaras #TiaraTuesdays #MerrimentMaking #RAOK
Happy Halloween from me and Matt! We just got hom Happy Halloween from me and Matt!

We just got home from giving out treats and now it’s time for tricks!
Honk if you love Hocus Pocus! Leave a 🧹 if you Honk if you love Hocus Pocus!

Leave a 🧹 if you would have honked!

#hocuspocus #halloweenart #uncustomaryhonk #performanceart #guerrillaart
Halloween guide! On substack! @ MerrimentMaker Halloween guide! On substack! @ MerrimentMaker
The term “mindfulness” 🧘‍♀️ gets thro The term “mindfulness” 🧘‍♀️ gets thrown around way too much. 

It’s a great concept, but how do we DO IT? 🤷‍♀️

I dedicated week 3 of ESNW to how to APPLY theory to tangibility. 🛠️ How to actually DO practices.

Here’s a taste. 👽

#Mindfulness #PracticalSelfCare #realselflove #antiselfhelp #aliens
Do you ever feel like you’re waiting for the oth Do you ever feel like you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop? 🫳👟

🎙️ In this episode, I talk about why good things feel scary 🎢 and why we brace for bad things (even if they don’t come). 🙀
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