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Reasons to Start Watching VR Porn Today and Precautions to Take

Reasons to Start Watching VR Porn Today and Precautions to Take

by Uncustomary | Dec 2, 2025 | How To

Virtual reality technology is a game-changer in the adult entertainment industry since it offers a new immersive viewing experience. Anyone who has not watched VR porn already is missing a lot, from immersive 360-degree video and better sound quality to private...
Creating a Self-Care Routine That Includes Mindful, Strength-Based Movement

Creating a Self-Care Routine That Includes Mindful, Strength-Based Movement

by Uncustomary | Dec 2, 2025 | How To

Self-care may have many different appearances. Others even begin their day with a cup of tea before the house rises. Others will lie down on the floor and take slow walks to clear the mind, which takes a few minutes. It does not have a single correct way of doing it....
The Psychology of Suit Colors: What Your Bespoke Suit Says About You

The Psychology of Suit Colors: What Your Bespoke Suit Says About You

by Uncustomary | Dec 2, 2025 | How To

Every color in a suit sends a message. Whether in a business meeting or a social event, the shade of fabric shapes how others see a person and how that person feels about themselves. Understanding what a suit color communicates helps someone choose clothing that...
Small Acts of Self-Care That Make a Big Difference in Your Day

Small Acts of Self-Care That Make a Big Difference in Your Day

by Uncustomary | Nov 28, 2025 | How To

Self-care doesn’t always have to look like a spa day, a retreat, or a complete lifestyle overhaul. In reality, the most meaningful forms of self-care are often small, repeatable habits that help you feel calmer, more grounded, and more supported as you move through...
Nine Casino for Italians: A Detailed Analysis of the Gaming Resource

Nine Casino for Italians: A Detailed Analysis of the Gaming Resource

by Uncustomary | Nov 28, 2025 | How To

Introduction Italy is buzzing! Online casinos are becoming the go-to entertainment for many, offering the thrill of the game right at your fingertips. Looking for a new place to play? You might consider a Nine casino login. But with so many options popping up, how do...
The Profound Impact: Understanding the Effects of Alcohol on the Human Body and Mental State

The Profound Impact: Understanding the Effects of Alcohol on the Human Body and Mental State

by Uncustomary | Nov 26, 2025 | How To

Did you know that over 2.3 billion people worldwide drink alcohol? That’s more than a quarter of the global population. Each year, alcohol causes about 3 million deaths, often from related health issues or accidents. Ethanol, the main type of alcohol in drinks...
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Monday reminder that there are some fabulous, whol Monday reminder that there are some fabulous, wholesome humans out there. 💁🌏🦸‍♀️ Hands up for the Merriment Makers. 🙌

#MerrimentMemes #WholesomeHumans #WholesomeMemes #KindnessIsFree #RestoringFaithInHumanity
I'm going to share a little trick with you I use i I'm going to share a little trick with you I use in coaching... 🤐

When you become aware of one of those silly, stupid, nutso thoughts your brain has (and is being VERY convincing about, so you start to believe), I want you to roleplay as an attorney. 👩‍⚖️ 

So maybe your brain is tricking you into believing 🤔 "you always fail", "there's never any point in trying", or "you're so ugly"...

Try to argue against the thought as if you're cross examining it. ⤵️

💯 "Oh REALLY? Well, would you say that's objectively true 100% of the time?"
📐 "Could you make the argument that this isn't grounded in something measurable?"
👥 "You're telling the jury that you have NEVER heard the opposite?"
📁 "I submit to you, Exhibit A: where the defendant actually did accomplish her goal."
🔮 "You aren't a mind reader, correct? So you are asking this court to accept your guess as a matter of fact?""
👩‍⚖️"YOUR HONOR, HERESAY!"
👭 "If a friend came to you with this exact same situation, you wouldn't use this harsh tone with them, would you? So why is your testimony so heavily biased?"
🎭 "So your entire argument rests purely on an emotional feeling, rather than documented fact?"
⚖️ "Objection. Speculation! Move to strike!"

Try it out. I've seen wonders with cognitive reframing. If you want help, apply for my mentorship to work with me one on one. 📎👩‍💻website 

#PlayfulPsychology #CognitiveReframing #SelfTalk #LimitingBeliefs #SelfSabotage
Happy Birthday to my favorite person of all time, Happy Birthday to my favorite person of all time, Nick! 🎉

I'm so glad I met you and came back to you.

You're loyal, witty, silly, generous, strong, and so, so pretty.
- 🎰 gamify your goals - 🧮 try to beat your highes - 🎰 gamify your goals 
- 🧮 try to beat your highest score
- 🪎 rack up points for completing tasks
- 🪙 trade in points for rewards
- ⏳ track your time spent on an app like habitica 
- 🌳 use a reward sticker chart (forest app trees grow)
- 🕹️ act like your life is a video game
- ⏱️ set time limits
- 🎲 wheel or dice for tasks
- 🎯 set challenges
- 🤼‍♀️ compete against someone else
- ⚖️ batch something fun with something less fun
- 📲 play Pokémon go if you’re trying to get exercise or get out of the house
- 🧽 channel Pippi Longstocking when you’re doing chores 

#merrimentmaking
My wanting and my choosing are both tied into: ex My wanting and my choosing are both tied into:

expression, creativity, communication, ideas, play, words, messages + being heard.

It's not just what turns me on. Well, it is. But it's mostly what makes me feel ALIVE? Magnetically, acutely alive.

The answer, in part is: say it. name it. write it. communicate it.
After a statistically improbable amount of evidenc After a statistically improbable amount of evidence that being alive can be absolutely brutal... 🥴

🙏  I still want to see what happens next.

That's what I mean by strange hope. 🦆

🌻 First essay drops tomorrow!!
✍️ For a year, I'm writing an essay a week! I bel ✍️ For a year, I'm writing an essay a week!

I believe the best art is detailed and honest. And that's what I can promise you this will be. 😅

🧮 The truly statistical improbable thing is that after an improbable amount of evidence that life can be absolutely fucking brutal... I still have hope. 🙏

If you're someone who also feels like their life has been a polycrisis, you're not alone. 😵‍💫

I want you to know that no matter what your life has been like, it doesn't have to end you. ☔

First essay drops on 📅 Thursday.
When I was writing my first book (over ten years a When I was writing my first book (over ten years ago!) 🖊️ I didn't think I had lived enough to write a full-on memoir.

Now, I feel differently. 😅

❣️ New essay drops every Thursday!
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