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25 Ways To Survive Valentine’s Day

As an active celebrator of holidays, unusual moments, and life in general, it seems counter-intuitive that I’ve never been a huge fan of Valentine’s Day. I’ve had a lot of long-term relationships, so it’s never been about being bitter that I was alone, but from the get-go, I decided that the way our society celebrates […]

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50 Ways To Mend A Broken Heart

Getting over a break-up is no joke. And unfortunately the realistic gamble of entering a relationship is that it will, at some point, end. That sounds pessimistic, but I don’t intend it to be. It’s just numbers. Out of all the romantic relationships you and I have been in, almost all (if not 100%) have […]

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Make Out Bucket List

If you’ve known me since high school, you might remember the “Make Out List” I would carry around in my purse. My friends were assigned initials, and after they made out in the place on the list, they would add their initial next to that item on the list. It got a little out of […]

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How To Date Uncustomary

[Edit March 2018] I wrote this list in September 2014, and I wanted to check it out and see now that I’ve grown so much how different the “criteria” for dating me is. Turns out… like, not at all.  In terms of what’s important to me, it’s still the basics. It’s kind of cool to […]

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